So often we get caught in this trap of arguing against a person’s perspective, saying she is wrong. That almost never goes over well.
There’s no way we could know the sum total of someone else’s experiences, feelings, and beliefs. We are in no position to say what that person should or shouldn’t feel. Just like no one else can judge our personal worldview.
It’s ineffective to argue about who’s right and who’s wrong when neither can be proven.